__________`` the never-ending LOVE and the wonderous feeling i-just-feel-like-saying-i-love-you words * " ________*`` ____

Saturday, December 02, 2006

Even wonder why is everyone bothered by this LOVE word but yet when they experience love they feel great about it? this sort of stuff are really complicated huh?haha.. how guys feel about girls and vice versa.. one party might have thoughts about some things but e other partner might not think likewise.. anyway i've been thinking about this question i came across this "theory" somewhere..

Love is about the little things.

Love is about the Commitment (C-word) even if he sleeps like a dead pig and turned up for a date late.

It's about accepting it and backing off when he says he needs space and privacy -- even if your curiosity is shredding your brain into individual, screaming neurons.

It's about knowing the emotional baggage he has and about the C-word to work through it with him, even though you know it's a time bomb that'll affect the relationship sooner or later.

It's about forgiving him when he's too tired or busy to spend time with you, even though you're annoyed and hurt because you're missing him to death.

It's about apologizing when you're wrong even though you hate to be wrong.

It's about understanding that he broke a promise because if he didn't he'd have had to wake you up in the middle of the night, and he didn't have the heart to.

It's about going out with him even though he doesn't spike his hair and you told him SPIKE YOUR HAIR and he said NO and you'd rather date Him Version 2: With Spiked Hair, any day.

It's about taking a cab to his place to see him because you miss him, and then refusing to let him foot the fare even though you're the Professional Leech and adore cash, really.

Love is about the C-word even if she is mood swinging like a pendulum on an oscillatory craze.

It's telling her you love her every single day because you know she gets bouts of insecurity, even if deep down instead both of you know she's an idiot for feeling insecure in the first place.

It's about forgiving her for distancing herself and for letting go of your hand because she was afraid and insecure.

It's about letting her win arguments because she hates to be wrong.
It's about the 'Hmm's and 'Ahh's when she's ranting about Something Insignificant, about the 'Sorry's when she wants an apology even if you're not in the wrong, about the 'What's Bothering You Darling?'s when she's clearly upset and you know it's going to be a long night of digging for an answer, even though inside you're going, Why can't she just tell me what's wrong directly because I'm so tired of digging already?
It's about letting her make your blog layout horrendously pink even though it traumatises you.

It's about telling her to continue blogging because you love her the way she is, even though you detest the scrutiny that comes with her publicly sharing the little juicy bits of your relationship, and even though your schoolmates bug you about her and that really bugs you.

It's about so, so much more.

Love overcomes virtually everything.

theperson im loving (:
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